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SYNAGOGUE EVENT CALENDAR
   NOVEMBER/DECEMBER   2008
CHESHVAN/KISLEV  5769

SUN MON TUE WED THURS FRI SAT
         





 
1






2 3



TORAH
  STUDY
   10AM
4


ELECTION
  DAY


SISTERHOOD
  MEETING
5


 
6



BINGO

 
7








YOUTH SERVICE
8
9 10 11


VETERAN'S  DAY


SISTERHOOD
GIFT AUCTION
12 13



BINGO




 
14 15
16 17



TORAH
  STUDY
   10AM
 
18 19






TEMPLE
BOARD MTG.
   7:30PM

 
20



BINGO


 
21 22
23

STRAND
THEATRE TRIP
24 25




SISTERHOOD
  BOARD MTG.
26






 
27
NO
  BINGO




THANKSGIVING
 
28







ROSH
 CHODESH
29
30 1



SISTERHOOD
BOOK
DISCUSSION
 
2 3 4




BINGO
5




 Shabbat
 Service
   new time
     7:15PM
6


 Special Oneg
    honoring
   Ruth Rand   
       and
Sophie Sherman
7
Men's
Club Mtg.

Sisterhood
CHANUKAH
BOUTIQUE
   10AM
 
8 9 10 11



BINGO
12


PASTA
  &  PRAYER

6PM Dinner
followed by
service led by
USY & Kadima
13

                                        
 

NEW TIME for Mincha Ma-ariv
  Minyan  begins at 4:40PM


   
NEW TIME for Friday evening service
Shabbat service will begin at 7:15PM
as of December 5

                    

2009 ENTERTAINMENT BOOKS ARE IN!
$25.00

Read Asbury Park Press article
of November 7, 2008
featuring Rabbis Shaffin & Fierstien
scroll  down  now
or  link  to

http://www.app.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=2008811070397


Rabbi Shaffin may be reached at
rshaffin@gmail.com
or 732 458 4700

 

 
 

Upcoming Events

EVENT DATE
VINE deadline
  Submit articles by:
     
                  December 2 for January edition of the Vine
                                  E-mail articles to    templebethorbrick@verizon.net

 
 
NEW TIME for Mincha Ma-ariv
                   Minyan begins at 4:40PM  Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday
                                      

 
MAZEL TOV, DAVID KROLL, ON YOUR SECOND BAR MITZVAH
                      THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR SIMCHA AND THE DELICIOUS KIDDUSH THAT FOLLOWED WITH THE CONGREGATION              
 
   SISTERHOOD GIFT AUCTION
                  THE SUCCESS OF THIS EVENT WAS DUE TO THE HARD WORK AND DEDICATION
                  OF ITS CHAIRMEN AND ALL WHO ASSISTED, IN ANY CAPACITY, IN THIS
                  PROJECT.  THANK YOU TO THE BRICK COMMUNITY AND NEIGHBORS FOR YOUR CONTINUED
                  SUPPORT OF TEMPLE BETH OR.

    

   
    
    Rabbi & Shoshanna
win the grand prize tv
THANKSGIVING COLLECTION
                        We are collecting non-perishable, kosher food items (place on cart in Temple lobby), or a cash
                        donation for local Jewish families until Thursday, November 20
                                         Leave money donations in envelope in Temple office -- Attn:  Elly Tron
 
Study Torah with Rabbi Fierstien.. Book of Deuteronomy Monday, November 17
   at 10:00 AM

TEMPLE BOARD MEETING  
 
              THIS IS A CHANGE FROM THE DATE POSTED ON THE TEMPLE CALENDAR
  
 
 Wednesday,  November 19
              7:30PM
  FYVUSH FINKEL in SECOND AVE to BROADWAY
                                               at the Strand Theatre, Lakewood
                                               THANK YOU....LET'S ENJOY THE SHOW                 
                         ADDITIONAL  TICKETS ARE AVAILABLE AT THE STRAND BOX OFFICE

Sunday, November 23
SISTERHOOD BOOK DISCUSSION GROUP 
  
                    If You Awaken Love  by Emuna Elon                             
                   
  
   
      
Monday, December 1

      
7:15PM
 
NEW TIME for Friday evening service                                                
           Shabbat service will begin at 7:15PM as of December 5th    
   Friday, December 5
           7:15PM
TEMPLE BETH OR SISTERHOOD CHANUKAH BOUTIQUE 2008
                 Shop for all your Chankukah gifts
                   Sunday, December 7     10AM
                             
 

MEN'S CLUB & SISTERHOOD GENERAL MEMBERSHIP MEETING
  
   
Sunday, December 7

      9:15AM Tefillen Service
     10:00    Breakfast Meeting
Save the Date    PASTA & PRAYER
                Italian Dinner sponsored by USY & Kadima
                               at no charge.... prior to Shabbat Evening Service
               RSVP   Temple Office  732-458-4700
                         templebethorbrick@verizon.net
                     or  Connie Zirin    zirinc@optonline.net    


Friday, December 12
   6:00PM
CASUAL SHABBAT -- BBQ  AND SERVICE
                    Thank you to all who came out for this event and enjoyed the 'ruach' at our special Shabbat service
          

 
 
  MEN'S CLUB GOLF OUTING
                     
THANK YOU FOR JOINING US ON SUCH A BEAUTIFUL AFTERNOON
  

  
DO YOUR SHOPPING with Sisterhood
      Purchase Shop Rite or Pathmark Gift Cards 
                  Donor credit applied  

 

Contact Anne Katz  anneark@msn.com
or come in to the Temple Office
CELEBRATE with Temple Beth Or  
$18 to participate at an Oneg Shabbat (Friday evening)
name and event will be announced from the bima and listed in the Temple Vine
       KIDDUSH AND CATERING ONLY  to host a kiddush or oneg
                 Contact SANDI SILBER  732-262-3010
FOR ONEG CALL 
RITA ROSENTHAL 732-349-6709  OR 
RACHEL ZYCBAND  732-785-1980
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  Shop for gifts, special occasion or holiday; new jewelry items available  CONTACT BARBARA LANGER
 
 
           Temple Beth Or   TREE OF LIFE    
    Leaf for any occasion      $54 f or member                    
                                                              $108 for non-member
 

 

TEMPLE BETH OR MAKES THE PRESS

ASBURY PARK PRESS ARTICLE OF NOVEMBER 7, 2008
***********************************************************

New Brick rabbi has big shoes to fill

Rabbi Royi Shaffin, the new rabbi at Temple Beth Or in Brick, says he hopes to at least tiptoe in them

By MATTHEW McGRATH • TOMS RIVER BUREAU • November 7, 2008


BRICK
— Rabbi Royi I. Shaffin sat silently staring at his Torah as his fellow classmates read from the ancient book.

A dozen people sat around four tables arranged in a rectangle to study Deuteronomy last Monday, in a small classroom inside Temple Beth Or. The fifth and last book of the Torah tells the story of Moses' retirement and Joshua's ascent during the waning days of Israel's desert wanderings three millennia ago.

Opposite Shaffin, Rabbi Robert E. Fierstien led the Bible study discussion.

Moses was told to step down by God because he did not listen to God's exact instructions. It's a sentence that did not sit well with many people in the class — they felt it was too strict. But Fierstien, Temple Beth Or's teacher and spiritual leader for 31 years, had a different interpretation of the ancient text.

"It was time for Moses to step down," Fierstien said with his palms extended outward. "It was time for someone else to take over."

Fierstien, 60, who is known for his constant jokes and his devotion to the New York Yankees, retired as the synagogue's rabbi during the summer. Shaffin, 34, is less of a joker but more energetic by all accounts. He took over the synagogue, following a national search.

"I have very large shoes to fill," Shaffin said in a recent interview. "Not that I expect to fill them, but if I can tiptoe in them, it would be great."

On Monday, between the two rabbis on the rectangle table's long side, sat David Kroll.

Two years ago, Kroll came to Beth Or looking for guidance on how to mourn his father. The 59-year-old East Brunswick accountant, who spends his weekends on the Point Pleasant canal, had not been to a Sabbath service in 35 years. At Beth Or, he found Fierstien.

"I never would have thought my favorite day of the week would be Saturday, our Sabbath — Shabbat," Kroll said.

Kroll chanted from the Torah for the first time in more than three decades last Saturday after spending two years studying under Fierstien.

"You think that was easy for me? It wasn't," Kroll said. "I must have done it 800 to 1,000 times in private with Rabbi Fierstien; I couldn't have done it without him."

It took Kroll two years of study under Fierstien to get to a point where he could lead the service in Hebrew again. He had first learned it as a boy.

But it was Shaffin who called him up to the pulpit Saturday. It was Shaffin who sang and danced with him and the synagogue's leaders. It was Shaffin who called on the congregation to sing and clap in celebration. It was Shaffin who ate the Kiddush lunch with him following the service.

Saturday was Kroll's second bar mitzvah. It was his recommitment to his faith and culture. It was something he would never have done without Fierstien.

"Rabbi Fierstien called me personally to tell me he was retiring; I was devastated, after two years we became very close," Kroll said. "I didn't think I could ever get excited for another rabbi, but Rabbi Shaffin makes you feel so good . . . He makes you want to get up and do it again and again."

Shaffin's road to this congregation has wound through the entire country. He was born in Los Angeles and he graduated from the University of Judaism there. He worked for film director Steven Spielberg's Survivors of the Shoah Foundation before jetting across the continent to study at the Jewish Theological Seminary in New York.

As a young rabbi, Shaffin worked in The Bronx and took over his own congregation in Lincoln, Neb., after graduation. From there, he set out for North Carolina's Appalachian Mountains, where he was a youth director at the American Hebrew Academy. But he is happy to be back in the Northeast with his young family.

He's the teacher of the temple's Hebrew school, and its principal. He's slowly meeting with New Jersey's Jewish leadership, and he has a curriculum to write. He spends what little free time he has scouring New York City for the best kosher restaurants, watching science fiction movies and debating the finer points of Superman lore.

Now, it's Fierstien's days that are much more free. He is filling his time teaching American-Jewish history at Richard Stockton College of New Jersey two times a week. And, he's teaching the adult education classes for his congregation Mondays.

"I'm not one to sit around in a rocking chair," Fierstien said in a recent interview. "I enjoy being active, so I'm glad to have something to do."

He came to Beth Or by a much more direct path. This township's only synagogue was Fierstien's only rabbinical assignment after graduating from New York University. He also studied at the Jewish Theological Seminary of New York, and went to work at Beth Or shortly after graduating in 1976. He's celebrated bar and bat mitzvahs at the only temple in Brick, where he later presided over the marriages of those same children.

He's the second rabbi at Beth Or, and he misses his active role. The congregation has given him the title of rabbi emeritus. He attends services there weekdays when he can drive from Lakewood, because it is too far to walk on the Sabbath.

"It was more than a job," Fierstien said. "It was my life and I absolutely love that."

The two rabbis are planning to form a chavruta, Shaffin said. That is a study group composed of two people who are teacher and student at the same time.

"We are all lifelong students," Shaffin said. "It's not fulfilling to always be the teacher."

Matthew McGrath:               (732) 557-5704        or mmcgrath@app.com

 

 

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RABBI SHAFFIN
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Chai Chair Fund   $18 per chair 
  Checks payable to:    Sisterhood Temple Beth Or -- certificate   sent upon request   
templebethor@gmail.com   attn:  Ann Metnick
 

SMOKE FREE BINGO at Temple Beth Or    
                         THURSDAY EVENING --- GAMES BEGIN AT 7:15PM
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HEBREW HIGH SCHOOL
         
Schedule will be posted when made available.
 
NOTE:  SCHOOL CLOSING  
  Hebrew School will be closed if the Brick Twp. Public Schools are closed.  Tune in to WOBM for information.
  NO HEBREW SCHOOL
       Wednesday, November 26

       Wednesday, December 24
       Monday, December 29
       Wednesday, December 31
    

    

OFFICE CLOSED
 
 
      Wednesday, November 26
      Thursday, November 27
      Friday, November 28
THE PARKING LOT HAS BEEN PAVED! 
 
THE TREES ARE PLANTED, THE GRASS IS GROWING, THE LINES AND SIGNS  ARE FINISHED.
 PLEASE ADHERE TO THE HANDICAPPED  AND FIRE LANE REGULATIONS
 

Calendar of Festivals and Holy Days

2008

Chanukah December 22, 2008

2009

Purim March 10, 2009
Pesach April 9, 2009
Yom Ha'Shoah April 21, 2009
Yom Ha' Zikaron April 28, 2009
Yom Ha'Atzmaut April 29, 2009
Shavuot May 29, 2009
Tisha B'Av July 30, 2009
Selichot September 12, 2009
Rosh Hashanah September 19, 2009
Yom Kippur September 28, 2009
Sukkot October 3, 2009
Shemini Atzeret/Simchat Torah October 10, 2009
Chanukah December 12, 2009

2010

Purim February 28, 2010
Pesach March 30, 2010
Yom Ha'Shoah April 11, 2010
Yom Ha' Zikaron April 19, 2010
Yom Ha'Atzmaut April 20, 2010
Shavuot May 19, 2010
Tisha B'Av July 20, 2010
Selichot September 4, 2010
Rosh Hashanah September 9, 2010
Yom Kippur September 18, 2010
Sukkot September 23, 2010
Shemini Atzeret/Simchat Torah September 30, 2010
Chanukah December 2, 2010

2011

Purim March 20, 2011
Pesach April 19, 2011
Yom Ha'Shoah May 1, 2011
Yom Ha' Zikaron May 9, 2011
Yom Ha'Atzmaut May 10, 2011
Shavuot June 8, 2011
Tisha B'Av August 9. 2011
Selichot September 24, 2011
Rosh Hashanah September 29, 2011
Yom Kippur October 8, 2011
Sukkot October 13, 2011
Shemini Atzeret/Simchat Torah October 20, 2011
Chanukah December 21, 2011

2012

Purim March 8, 2012
Pesach April 7, 2012
Yom Ha'Shoah April 19, 2012
Yom Ha' Zikaron April 25, 2012
Yom Ha'Atzmaut April 26, 2012
Shavuot May 27, 2012
Tisha B'Av July 29. 2012
Selichot September 8, 2012
Rosh Hashanah September 17, 2012
Yom Kippur September 26, 2012
Sukkot October 1, 2012
Shemini Atzeret/Simchat Torah October 8, 2012
Chanukah December 9, 2012

2013

Purim February 24, 2013
Pesach March 26, 2013
Yom Ha'Shoah April 7, 2013
Yom Ha' Zikaron April 15, 2013
Yom Ha'Atzmaut April 16, 2013
Shavuot May 15, 2013
Tisha B'Av July 16. 2013
Selichot August 31, 2013
Rosh Hashanah September 5, 2013
Yom Kippur September 14, 2013
Sukkot September 19, 2013
Shemini Atzeret/Simchat Torah September 26, 2013
Chanukah November 28, 2013

2014

Purim March 16, 2014
Pesach April 15, 2014
Yom Ha'Shoah April 27, 2014
Yom Ha' Zikaron May 5, 2014
Yom Ha'Atzmaut May 6, 2014
Shavuot June 4, 2014
Tisha B'Av August 5. 2014
Selichot September 20, 2014
Rosh Hashanah September 25, 2014
Yom Kippur October 4, 2014
Sukkot October 9, 2014
Shemini Atzeret/Simchat Torah October 16, 2014
Chanukah December 17, 2014
 

 

 
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